Beauty Series #3: Boring Beauty
When it comes to beauty, some people approach it with excitement and a flurry of activity, while others take a calm, methodical approach. When it comes to plastic surgery, boring is actually better.
Dr. Bass explains his concept of “boring beauty”—why slow, thoughtful decision-making leads to the best results. Rushing into procedures may feel exciting, but taking your time ensures you make the right choices.
Of course, achieving your beauty goals should be fun and fulfilling, but on the execution side, a steady, careful approach by your plastic surgeon is key to success.
About Dr. Lawrence Bass
Innovator. Industry veteran. In-demand Park Avenue board certified plastic surgeon, Dr. Lawrence Bass is a true master of his craft, not only in the OR but as an industry pioneer in the development and evaluation of new aesthetic technologies. With locations in both Manhattan (on Park Avenue between 62nd and 63rd Streets) and in Great Neck, Long Island, Dr. Bass has earned his reputation as the plastic surgeon for the most discerning patients in NYC and beyond.
To learn more, visit the Bass Plastic Surgery website or follow the team on Instagram @drbassnyc
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Welcome to Park Avenue
Plastic Surgery Class,
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the podcast where we explore controversies
and breaking issues in plastic
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surgery. I'm your cohost, Summer Hardy,
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a clinical assistant at Bass
Plastic Surgery in New York City.
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I'm excited to be here with Dr. Lawrence
Bass, Park Avenue plastic surgeon,
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educator and technology innovator.
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The title of today's
episode is Boring Beauty.
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This is another episode
in our beauty series,
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the series where we present and discuss
Dr. Bass's advice and philosophy about
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your beauty and how to put together
your beauty program. Okay, Dr. Bass,
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you've piqued my curiosity again,
what is this episode about?
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What is boring beauty?
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Well, when we think about
working on our beauty,
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we can have a lot of mania. We
can have a lot of excitement.
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We can have a flurry of intense
activity or we can be very
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calm,
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very organized and
methodical in planning and
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executing the beauty plan.
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And so this episode is about
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taking that approach and
working in that fashion
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to achieve our beauty goals.
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Okay, so why is boring better?
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So boring beauty means
you're deliberating,
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you're thinking carefully.
You're not rushing,
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you are taking your time to make
sure you're making the right
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decision. History, changing your
face or your body appearance. I mean,
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people see your face all day, every day.
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So making sure you're
certain that a certain
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treatment procedure or
change is the right decision
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is a pretty good idea because if you
do something you decide two weeks
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later was a bad idea,
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that's going to show all day every
day until you can correct it if it's
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correctable.
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Okay. And what does boring allow?
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So what boring allows
is a focus on process.
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We're not rushing. It's
more logic, less emotion.
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So maybe the Mr. Spock of beauty.
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Okay, I get the idea,
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but isn't it supposed to be fun
planning and getting plastic surgery?
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Absolutely.
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It's very fun and it's
very emotionally satisfying
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to achieve your beauty goals. And
the process should be fun as well.
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So there's nothing wrong with fun.
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The emotion is okay on the
experience side and also
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on the perception of beauty side,
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but it's not as useful
in decision making and
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definitely not on the execution
side by the plastic surgeon.
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That's where boring
and methodical severely
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works to your advantage over being very
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flip,
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very casual for very rushed
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and hepped up about things.
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Being calm and boring
really helps you succeed at
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achieving your goals, particularly on
the execution side with the surgeon.
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That makes sense. How did you
come upon this concept, Dr. Bass?
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I put this idea into
words many years ago when
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some of the big reality TV
plastic surgery shows were
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on the networks, the
Swan, Extreme Makeover,
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Plastic Surgery 90210, Miami Slice.
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These were reality TV shows that
showed patients getting plastic
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surgery. And one of my patients
who is a major network producer,
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asked me at the time, she said, "Dr. Bass,
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there are so many great plastic
surgeons in New York City.
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You are a great plastic surgeon.
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Why isn't there a reality plastic
surgery show in New York City?"
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And I said to her, "we're boring, right?
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If you need surgery on
your body, on your face,
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we're a really good choice
because we're boring,
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we're careful, we're grounded, stable,
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but we're not very entertaining.
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And TV shows are about
entertainment and boring doesn't
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work there." And she said, "you know,
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you're right." So that's when
I first thought about this,
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and I was reminded of this more recently,
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and that led me to plan
this specific episode.
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So I saw a bank commercial where
they talked about boring banking,
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and they said, boring
banking launches rockets.
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It launches your retirement
and your financial security,
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and it lets you pursue
all your hopes and dreams.
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So getting your beauty
with boring beauty does
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exactly the same thing. Lets you
full fulfill your hopes and dreams,
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get the confidence of looking the way
you envision yourself image where you'd
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like to style yourself.
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And so boring beauty is extremely
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powerful.
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Thank you, Dr. Bass, for laying
out this fascinating concept to us.
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Thank you for listening to the Park
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